I'm so sorry your significant other was a cheater
i am sorry to hear that she treated you that way but all trans people arent selfish cause iam mtf and i am not selfish my partner left me but i understood she couldnt see herself living with me as a female but it would have been nice if we could stay in the relationship but it wasnt meant to be.
I been married 21 years. I just recently survived stage 4 cancer. My husband at 57 years old feels he must now see an counselor to find who he is... After all this time. He said he can't make me any promises... And it may take years to figure out who he is. So I'm moving into the spare bedroom... He can't move me in their fast enough. I feel like dying. I thought about it but I have to be strong for our child. Who is 18 now and told me I'm like the old shoe ready to be thrown out. My poor daughter has had to deal with his moodiness and selfishness he Blames on his identity disorder. He told me it was only a fetish for https://maxloan.org/installment-loans-in/ most our married life. I'm 51 and in poor health now... I have to worry about him being dud donated against now, losing our health care... Etc. my heArt I literally torn in half and he durably care. Yet all I do is feel bad for him...I must start to think of me. And my poor child who is also depressed over this.
you are not alone here. Not being good enough anymore is very hurtful. I think it's important to be ready to move on an not expect too much out of the relationship anymore.